May 14, 2011

Mother Role in Educating Children

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GladChild: No one doubts the importance of the role of mothers in educates their children, affection and attention from a good mother has a huge effect on the child's personality. Attention and affection will cause a feeling of thanks in children and raise self confidence in their growth periods.

So great was the role of a mother in educating her children, it cannot be denied that the mother is the first school.

The process of education provided by a mother had carried out since the baby still in the womb. What mother listen to or read to the baby in the womb, then it will be heard also by the baby. Emotional and character of the mothers had to be transmitted through the behavior of a mother during pregnancy and parenting. In one study, for a mother who always has the feeling of wanting to contain the angry even then the child will grow up someday to have heart disease.

Education also can be provided with eye contact that occurs between mother and child. At any time, wherever and whenever this education process can be done. A mother has a big responsibility in creating a young generation of creative, innovative, educative and productive. It is a dream comes true if it was not painted by the gentle hands of a mother. And to make it happen, the knowledgeable, intelligent and devoted to who can do it. Damage to the morality of women is a contiguous chain with juvenile delinquency, the fragility of families and damage communities.

If a mother can understand and willing to perform duties and responsibilities in educating and directing children well, with all the guidance and example to children. God willing, will be born a generation that devout, superior and qualified, able to be responsible for themselves and their lives later.

But in reality many mothers who cannot perform its duties and responsibilities properly. Maybe there are some who are too busy with his career until sometimes as handed major responsibility for education to the school or the children who spend more time with caregivers who may be "less qualified". Or maybe there is a feeling surrender and despair in educating children because of lack of knowledge so confused does not understand what to do.

If this condition continues, educational and mental development of children who lack good parenting from a mother will be neglected so that the child's personality is either not achieved. Usually this child become bad behavior in both the family and society and if you have this completely wrongs of course not the child.

The number of suicide cases due to parental violence on children, indicating that children feel safe and comfortable in his family environment, this condition is certainly not a situation conducive to providing good education for children because their parents could not even be a role model good for them.

So the first thing that must be created by the family, especially by a mother is to create conditions conducive so that the constraint in educating children, directing them to the teachings of religion, creating a devout personality will be easier, because there is mutual trust and a strong bond of affection between Mother and child, from all the family.

Therefore, let us together to immediately begin educating children in a good way, in earnest and full of patience. If not, then it will be a mother the most to lose, that mothers who are waiting the arrival time of difficulty repeatedly. Because it has a rebellious child and may be often detrimental to many parties, including himself, other people are also parents.

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